CHEERFULNESS;
A cheerful person is always more disposed to be happy than to be miserable. He looks at the bright side of things and thus often derives pleasure from circumstances which would depress the spirits of an ordinary man. This being the case to say that cheerfulness promotes happiness, is as much a truism as to say that justice leads to the doing of just acts, and that cheerfulness promotes happiness more than the anything else in the world. The cheerful beggars is far happier than the melancholy millionaire. As sources of happiness neither wealth nor fame nor beauty nor power nay not even health itself, can for a moment be compared with a cheerful disposition. As a rule, health and cheerfulness are associated together in the same persons but in the rare cases when this is not so we find that health fails to secure happiness and that a confirmed invalid may be happy in spite of weakness and bodily pain. There are many delicate women, condemned by that seemed a cruel fate to pass their lives on a sofa, who have by their cheerful endurance pf the inevitable,so far conquered fortune as to be happy themselves and make all around them happy. So true it is that our happiness depends on ourselves that is on our minds, far more than on the gifts of fortune.
Another great advantage of cheerfulness is that it enables a man to do better work and prevents him from being easily exhausted. The truth is well expressed by the homely words of the Shakespeare song, that tell us how. A,merry heart goes all the day, the said tries in a mile. The laborer who whistles over his work goes home less tried and can work harder than another who as, he labor broods over real or imaginary troubles. This is also true of intellectual work, which is seriously impaired by depression of spirits. Therefore, as the cheerful, man is happiness of all the better because of his cheer fullness is is a plan duty for everybody to do his best to cultivate a cheerful spirit.
But some will say that cheerfulness is a gift of nature and cannot be attained by any efforts of the will. There is a certain amount be attained by any efforts of the will. There is a certain amount of truth in this objection. It is true that some men are born with cheer full disposition and other with a melancholy temperature. Nevertheless it is possible for the cheerful person to make himself more cheerful and for the melancholy man to diminish his tendency to depression of spirits.
The two best means for the attainment of this desirable end are plenty of congenial work, and attention to the rules of health. Although as was said above, it is possible for the healthy to indulge in melancholy, it is almost always found that improvement of health promotes cheerfulness. Avery large part of the melancholy in the world is due to preventable indigestion. The connection between cheerfulness and regular occupation is not quite so close, but experience of life shows that the greatest depression of spirits is to be found among those who either won't work or unfortunately cannot get work. Therefore if we wish to be cheerful we must be careful of our health and avoid idleness. By so doing as shall become more cheerful, and the effect will react on the cause for we shall find that in its turn our cheerfulness will improve our health and the quality of our work.........
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